The Keys to Masculinity

  1. Get in touch with, welcome and learn how to nurture your EMOTIONS, your feeling side; it is OK! In fact, it is necessary for you to fully mature as a man. No, you don’t have to take up knitting, but if you want to, go for it.
  2. Investigate what you really feel inside by stopping all the distracting behaviors. Then practice communicating these feelings to others, not mentally, but from your heart. There is no shame in this. Use your powers of discernment to know whom you can share with and whom you can’t, as some you cannot.
  3. Trust all of your emotions. That may seem overwhelming at first, but that is only because you’ve held so much back for so long. Release the log jam a little at a time with the intention of reconnecting with your whole self. Honor what you can handle at your own speed. How much you can take on will increase with practice. Your emotional muscles have just atrophied. Work them. No pain, no gain.
  4. Trust your inner senses (intuition). Intuition is not only for women. Its source is clearly within all of us, though it is located in our feminine aspect.
  5. LEARN HOW TO CRY! Real men can and do cry! It is only emotionally bottled up in men that can’t. I was one of them. This does not mean crying at the drop of a hat. You will see that you can cry, feel deep pain or sorrow, and maintain your masculinity at the same time! Doing this from your center of power, your heart center, will actually enhance your true masculinity versus the false bravado masquerading as masculinity men have been taught.
  6. FORGIVE YOURSELF and OTHERS, over and over again. We all make mistakes. We are NOT our mistakes. It is through our mistakes that we can learn the deepest lessons. “Forgive them for they know not what they do.”
  7. Develop deep compassion and encourage yourself. Work on this daily. Start by looking in the mirror in the morning. Send love, compassion, and understanding to yourself, even if only for a few seconds. Learn how to love, accept, and approve of yourself and others. Consistently commend yourself for every act of kindness and sensitivity.
  8. Trust women while trusting your powers of discernment to guide you as to what degree and who, on an individual basis, is trustworthy. This requires us to listen to, not ignore our inner warnings. Sometimes we choose to see what we want to see rather than what is. Practice this continually. Forgive yourself if you make an error in discernment. It is how we learn and does not make you wrong.
  9. Stop judging yourself and others. Know you are never wrong; you are perfect as you are. Your choices may not work, so then you’ll learn to change them. Errors don’t make you wrong; they mean you are learning better ways to do things. If you touched the proverbial “hot iron” ten times before you learned not to, so what! Don’t beat yourself up. Your learning speed is perfect for you. The same applies to others.
  10. Learn how to have fully intimate sex! In-to-me-see (intimacy) is the key to this. Open your heart and invite them in and accept their invitation to enter within them, on all levels. This is the true experience of connection, and it is way beyond mundane physical sex. It is how we touch the divine!
  11. Strengthen your connection to God or your own higher power. It is a great source of renewal. Try quieting your mind by meditating, breathing slowly, and relaxing. Give yourself permission to be less busy and more at peace within yourself and with others.
  12. Give yourself permission to just have fun, feeling and enjoying the experience and journey.

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