Men and Sex
Excerpt from Men-The Gods of Love, Chapter 1: The Current Model
Men must be strong, directive, unflinching beings who can handle anything and must know the answers to all questions. Admitting they don’t know is shaming. Ask for directions, no way! The role model for this resembles super heroes depicted in comic books, super-male, the man of “emotionless” steel. Ever try to warm up to steel?
Men are, however, allowed two emotions that aren’t considered wrong. The first is anger, no surprise here. The second is sex. Yes, sex, which for a man is a surrogate or substitute emotion…
Sex, the surrogate emotion replaces a whole array of things like intimacy, communication, sensitivity, need for touch, approval, and love, which men are not allowed to need. In fact, needing anything other than sex, power, and money, or what it can buy, is usually at least suspect and ridiculed, if not prohibited. Men are chastised for showing any signs of sensitivity or feelings. They are told these human needs cause harm and pain or show weakness and inferiority. This is to be avoided at all cost!
These types of limiting beliefs have been taught to men by the patriarchal belief system, which has possessed the consciousness of society for a very long time. This is why sex is so important to men; it is ALL of men’s needs rolled into one, or at least so they believe. Is there any wonder why men will lie or pay money to get sex? To men, it is their lifeblood and the only source men are allowed! Women are allowed feelings and can seek their lifeblood from many sources.
LINK: Why do men lie? The #1 reason - sex, their lifeblood.
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